There is another permaculture site that I used to get on a lot until the owner of the site set out his plans for world domination, anyway there is a thread there about trying to hide the barrel, or improve the look of the barrel in a RMH in your living room. They can be painted with stove black. It is a watery paint that will stand a lot of heat. Unforfunately it will turn gray with time. Some people have gone to the Hardware store and bought hardware cloth. That is a thin metal product with a pattern stamped though the metal. It comes in different colors, gold, silver; brass, aluminum, etc and can be bent in a semi-circle around the barrel easily. Pick a color and pattern that you like and let an inch or two from the barrel to the metal filligree work, you may need more than one piece to go all the way around the barrel. The heat might discolor some of the paterns or colors, so pick wisely. The top of the barrel is still exposed so you can still boil water, make tea, add humidity, or cook on the stove if need be. The added metal around the main barrel might also add just a small bit of added safety with small children, it would shield the heat of the main barrel from touch while still allowing all of the heat to circulate from the barrel. It was the best Idea that I had seen for hiding the barrel look. BTW My oldest son calls my permaculture friends, my Hippy Dippy Friends. lol, so your wife is in good company if she thinks we are all burned out pot smoking hippys from the 1960's

I don't know about the rest of the group, but I for one an not nearly burned out just yet,

I won't comment on anything else,

because I did grow up in the 60's

Never doubt that a small group of dedicated people can change the world, indeed it is the only thing that ever has.